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Monday, February 17, 2014

more like a journal entry, really


Saturday! 2.15.14
Tony took the kids skating and sledding at Erb Park.  He is going to surprise them with hot cocoa and treats at the coffee shop when they are finally tired of the cold.

So... I am trying to pry myself away from the "Intervention" episodes I found on Hulu, and do some of the things that need doing. It's true, I'm a junkie-watching junkie when I'm procrastinating.  

First up, is tackling this new soup recipe I've been meaning to try.  It's sort of a hybrid of a couple of non-Primal recipes that I've found; I made some substitutions to make it primal-friendly.  For instance, I've found that although arrowroot powder is a thickener, and is used in place of cornstarch, it can also often be used in place of white flour, in halved amounts: 1/2c arrowroot powder = 1 c white flour.
We had a big breakfast this morning, so I saved some of the bacon, and also cooked the chicken breasts this morning.  The soup smells just fabulous, simmering on the stove right now.  Hopefully, the kids will like it, too.  Otherwise, I'm not complaining about the left-overs we'll have! 

CREAMY CHICKEN BACON SOUP
INGREDIENTS:
*30 oz chicken broth
*1/2 cup finely chopped green onions
*1/2 cup rice
*1/2 cup grassed butter
*1/2 cup arrowroot powder
*1/2 tsp salt
*1/2 tsp pepper
*2 cups half and half
*2 cups cooked chicken
*8 slices of bacon, crisply cooked and crumbled
INSTRUCTIONS:

  1. In a large saucepan, combine chicken broth and water. Add wild rice and onions. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat, cover and simmer 30-45 minutes (or until rice is tender). 
  2. In a medium saucepan, melt butter, stir in arrowroot powder, salt, seasoning, and pepper. Cook 1 minute, stirring constantly, until smooth and bubbly.
  3. Gradually stir in half and half with the butter/flour mixture and cook until slightly thickened, stirring constantly. Add this creamy mixture back into the saucepan with the rice/broth. Add the chicken and bacon. Heat on low, stirring every once in a while, for at least a half an hour. Do not boil. The mixture will look thin, but the longer you heat the soup, the more the flavors marry and the more it will thicken. This soup is best served after gently heating for a few hours, or more, or the next day! For extra flavor, add poultry seasoning and/or bacon.


On to school thoughts.  We started our Ancient China unit in "Story of the World", this week. They were really into this, so much so, that I think I will look through some of the library books I checked out, and find some artsy projects to go along with the study, maybe spend an extra week here.  
 
We enjoyed reading about the Shang Dynasty, and the first emperor, Qin Shi Huang Di.  Soren reminded me that he'd seen a preview from the cartoon, "Justin Time", for an episode about Ancient China, and so we watched that, too.  I was also glad to find that Soren's, "Writing With Ease" English lesson was coincidentally based on an excerpt from this "Story of the World" topic, on the same day!  (Susan Wise Bauer is the author of both WWE and SOTL.)
In other academia, we continue to keep pushing ourselves with Math, and all 3 are on track to finish their course by mid-May. Gressa will probably be done prior to then.  I haven't completely decided yet, but am leaning toward starting Saxon 2 with her, when she finishes 1, while waiting for the others to be finished - rather than her just being "done" with Math until the fall.
I found this on Gressa's clipboard one day! warm fuzzies!
For a short time, Ava was doing 2 math lessons per day, as we had to do some catch-up, after backing up to review vital concepts. She is more than caught up, now, which is thrilling, really, for us both.  1 lesson/day is much more manageable, and truly, I think she will retain even more. 

The Saxon CD is teaching the lessons, which allows her to stop and process, whenever she hits pause.  It also allows her to check her work step by step, and has been very helpful for us to review her answers together, right after working the problems, rather than days later.  
When there is a concept she doesn't fully understand the first round, I flip to the Supplemental Practice section in her text and give her 5-10 of those types of problems to do.  She does those until she "gets it." I will average her test grades, for her class "grade" at the end of the year.  I'm not giving out grades in any of the other subjects.  We simply cover all material and move on when we "get it." But Math and it's black and white-ness seems to beg for a grade, and with all of the tests throughout the year, I think it will be a good gauge of abilities, and a reward for their hard work. 
Learning to write checks!  His future's so bright... apparently...
It's really a great payback to see Ava's math EFFORT blossom in such a huge way!  She really cares.  Whether she was distracted in a classroom environment, or invested, instead, in what was happening socially... or simply not pushed enough to try her best, it doesn't matter.  Now, she DOES care.  She cares about doing things the right way, and is learning how she learns best.  And she has lost the whole, "I stink at Math" identity/mind block, which may be the best part.  Multiplying and dividing mixed numbers will likely never be her pride and joy, but wow, have we made strides.  
On this topic of "caring" and "grades", it's heartwarming for me to see how effort, etc. tie in, here at home.  None of the kids are asking if they got "an A" when they finish a given assignment.  But they do ALL want to do it the right way, and give their best, anyway.  Interesting to me... the idea that they simply WANT to do their best, but not because they are motivated by a potential "good" grade (as I, and likely many of us, were.)  I think it a fabulous thing to learn early on, the idea that anything worth doing, is worth doing right.  They all understand that we spend time learning something, completely, before we move on. Without even realizing it, they are accepting that things need to be done correctly before they're "done."  Good Work Ethics, for the win! And, by the way, they're finding that most of the time, things don't necessarily have to be done any ONE, certain way, to be done correctly!
Sunday * 2.16.14
Ava had a Nothin' But Net basketball tournament in Fond du Lac today.  Her team has been struggling all season (think: Bad News Bears), but today was such a payoff.  The girls placed 3rd out of 8 teams, and even received medals. (They also lost a very close game, 26-23, which had they won, would've given them a clean sweep.)


I will truly cherish this day.  The girls played their hearts out, the entire day.
  They were rebounding so much better, shooting and passing better, and being more aggressive! They worked together SO well, and it really seemed that all members of the team contributed, in a big way.  They had the chance to run their plays and I think this was a big confidence-builder for them. So much personal and team growth today.  Good things, good things!
swish!

sibs
We get medals! Yeah!

Mini Lady Foxes ~ way to go, girls and coaches!
Sara, Elise, & Ava!
Tomorrow is Monday, my clinic work day, and the day Tony works from home.  As such, the kids' school day looks a bit different on Mondays, than on other days of the week. The get a lighter day, which we make up for during the week, and I tend to give them more enrichment activities than on other days.  They can typically do these things more independently. Also, on a "regular" school day, we can often run out of time for the enrichment stuff, like Art.  

There is always Math and Reading, though.  Always. They do need to wait until an alternate weekday to do work that is needed 1:1, with me, but they get the chance to practice so many other valuable things while I am away!

I still print out their schedules (as I do, every day), and they know that this is a list of expectations, not suggestions.

Sample Monday schedule for Soren
I am excited to see what evolves during Art class tomorrow, as I found a website that looks really fun and interesting! artforkidshub.com : There are many, brief lessons given, step-by-step in both drawing and painting.
My absence in their school world once in awhile, gives them a chance to really navigate things together, as I often assign a reading and discussion for them, as well as bible time. Also, oftentimes, Ava or Soren will be a mentor for G, with her work.  They also get Minecraft time, which S and G, especially, LOVE.  They have been having so much fun with that in the past few weeks, and it's really great to hear them interacting with each other while cooperating, planning, building, playing, and defending each other in their side-by-side Minecraft "worlds".  

On Mondays, they have more responsibility for keeping their breaks between school tasks short, for helping make their meals, and for any other household stuff. They are truly starting to internalize the idea of managing different responsibilities: school, helping out with whatever, chores, and free time.  That is a big goal of mine!  
Oh! PS The soup yesterday was UNBELIEVABLY AWESOME!  We will definitely be having it again, soon. And bonus... during the meal, Soren pulled out his Atlas and started to show Tony all he'd learned about China.  I have 3 atlases on constant renew from the library (I wonder when they'll find me out?), so that each kiddo can page through and locate necessary maps/locations on their own, when we read and discuss geography/"Story of the World."  They've really started embracing pulling out "their" atlas and finding out so much about whatever country we are studying!  

Soren: "Dad, here is where the Great Wall is... and did you know it was made out of packed dirt hard as stone, 4 inches at a time, because there wasn't enough stone in the country to build it?? ...And China has SOOO many mountains!  Look!  ...And they grow lots of rice in China because it grows really good in the Yellow River Valley, because it's between 2 rivers and it's always wet there!!" Love!  Next up, is Ancient Africa.  Can't wait!  

Uhh... Update.
So, unfortunately the sore throat I managed to determinedly ignore over the weekend, has quickly manifested itself into bronchitis in the past 24 hours. Shortness of breath, fatigue, and coughing. Aaaah!  

It's a time of reflection and transition when your kids hold you accountable for taking care of your ill self.  I mean, when they are babies, mom truly just CAN'T be sick.  You push through it ALL.  You ignore, and overcome all common ailments, because you are Mom.  But now, today, as I'm hacking and reaching for my inhaler, Gressa looks wide-eyed at me and says, 
"Mom, you are still going to work?" 
Me (still trying to push through): "Well, yes, it's my work day."
"But Mom, you're sick... you should stay in bed, right...?"
OOh yeah, that's right... the extra rest and fluids that we drill in their heads as their Mom... to avoid further/worse illness... we've told them that it applies to us all, now haven't we... 
Crap!
So in bed, I am.  I think it might be the first time I'm actually taking care of my self entirely appropriately.  Huh.  Thanks, kids. I was thankful that Tony still stayed home to work here.  He took the kids to the Y to play bball this afternoon, and the puppy pants has been my best bud.
This morning around 10, I did get up, to check in on everyone.  The result: I put steak and mushrooms in the crock while practicing multiplication flashcards with Soren... broke up a fight between S and G about pillow cushions... insisted upon Ava that yes, she really does have to do the English lesson assigned... emptied and refilled the dishwasher... trimmed the stems of my happy heart day dozen roses... and set up this art project idea for the kids to do, if they want, when they return from the Y. 
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So, I guess I've simply decided that it's nearly impossible to do the Mom-thing halfway.  I'm up.  I'm there.  I'm Mom.  That's how they see it.  I suppose I wouldn't want it any other way...
Bonus: while I was in bed, 
artforkidshub.com was a hit :)





Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Living = Learning

Totally finding our groove and loving and learning. Finding that we are continually evolving into who we are.  Us.  Our family.  Our dynamics.  Our weaknesses, and our strengths.  What works?  What doesn't?

1.  Salvation.  My #1 job (aside from protecting their safety) as Mom, is to make sure I do all I can to share the truth, to see my kids in heaven one day. Reading His Word. Praying. Talking.  Teaching repentance. Asking questions.  Answering questions.  Not knowing answers to questions.  Finding those answers in His word. God is so, so, great like that.  
2.  God's Word. Math. Reading. Writing.  Gotta have 'em.  If we do nothing else, we WILL do these things.  Every day. 

Oh, just learnin' how to write checks.
3.  Chronological History.  A biblical worldview = H I S T O R Y.  Absolutely enthralled with learning about our amazing, and perfectly created world in a chronological way.  Thank you, Story of the World. Recently, we've covered ancient Mesopotamia, Babylon, India, and the fairy tale of Gilgamesh.
 4. Love.  Such a simple word, yet sooo loaded.  I want to teach my kids to love.  To really love.  Family first.  Love one another.  Love your brother.  Love your friends. Love a stranger.  Love all of God's children.  We love because He first loved us - not just when they agree with us, not just when they choose as we would. We love not because of what others do, but simply because of who they are: someone precious, created in His image.  We ALL matter.  We all have worth. We respect that.  Well, or we lose Xbox... and Minecraft... and sleepovers. Gaaahhhh.

5.  Give grace.  Boy.  Boy, oh BOY.  This is big for me.  Having the kids home has given me so many, many opportunities to show them grace.  In particular, Ava and I have really strengthened our relationship.  Peer dependency seems to have played a big part in inhibiting her growth prior to being home.  She is so free to be her.  She is messing up...and not messing up. I am messing up. She is being herself.  She is learning what exactly, that means.  It.Is.Priceless. And I am here to witness it all, and step in when she needs me.  So thankful. 

Living = learning. 
Gressa & "Bianca"
1st lesson!

Oh, I love these kids so! Does love...and life... really need to be more complicated than this...?  I just don't think so.











Friday, January 31, 2014

Days Like This

This super-fantastic thing has happened.  Ava, in her Mama's sadness of her growing up, is...well... growing up!  After 3 years of planting organization and favorable hygiene habits, it seems we are yielding some results. 

I have, I admit, been preaching, "I know you don't care how they are folded... BUT I am showing you how they are folded, so that ONE DAY, when you DO care how they are folded... you will KNOW HOW TO FOLD."

Sooo, yes... and... no. Ava had her own take on "folding". It really should come as no shock.  Girl does things her own way.  And I'm actually quite inspired, sometimes.

"Hey Mom... lemmee show ya something..."


"I found it on Pinterest; it said that rolling would actually make LESS wrinkles than folding.  Plus, this way I can see everything in there, at once."

Is my girl one up-ing me??  Groovy.  I can't tell you how many nightmares I've had about her laundry habits. Candy wrappers, plastic spoons, earrings, and other unmentionables have been found in these same drawers, and under her bed.  Sooo.... you GO, girl, go.  Score.  And also, WAAAAHHHHHHH!  HOW are you so big?!? Sigh.


A shout out to my Veteran Homeschooling Mama Heroes, Nicole Warren and Jennifer Kimble: I remember talking to you when our family made the commitment to begin homeschooling...  You said there'd be days like this... when making a water bottle volcano doesn't sound half as fun to a 9 year old, as covering the cookie jar with crud that never comes off.
Making Olympus Mons, the solar system's largest volcano - located on Mars
No matter how I try, I still can't seem to fully embrace messy crafting and experimenting.  But I forge on... because the smiles and looks of concentration and interest on my ever-changing kids' faces makes it more than worth it.   

You said there'd be days like this...


and this...

There are also days like this...


Learning about Rachmaninoff and Rothko
And days like this... 1:1 time.  Thee.Best.  Amazing how a kiddo's light just shines beyond belief when date time kicks in.  I think it's the parent's little gem of a reward for prioritizing this special time. Love so much.  She was so happy to choose Pandora songs... giving the  "thumbs up" click when she approved.  She now calls classical music "our music" and that pretty much makes me happier than anything.


We are on the road this week.  Sooo very super excited to be spending time in Indiana with my one-of-a-kind inspiration & soul sister, and her family.
This picture, below, was actually taken on the day we met each other for the very first time.    
It was the Fall of 1995 and Tony was playing baseball at Bethany Lutheran College.  He had a teammate named Garry Kimble.  Garry was already married at the time... to Jennifer.  We were just 18 (me) and 19 (her) at the time. 
Tony: "Wait till you meet Garry's wife; I think you are really going to like her and get along well."  
We'd no idea what kind of true, blessed friendship lie ahead.
From our passion for learning, and challenging ourselves, to the uncontrolled and self-diagnosed ADHD, we are truly kindred spirits.  A heart for missions, the both of us, and striving to center our lives around loving & serving Him, and our families.  Both of us, dedicated (on most days) to constant, all-around self-improvement.  So similar, yet... I could only hope and pray to be as strong, unselfish and unprententious as this girl.  Oh, and 
p a t i e n t. Also, she can sing.  Like, in an ahhmaayzing way.   On that note (pun intended... ok, bad, bad...), Jen's the only person I can claim to have done my "witch laugh" with, while she simultaneously sang an impromptu opera ditty.  Oh yeah.  That happened.  Just this Tuesday, while we were unloading the dishwasher and feeding the kids lunch. 
Jam & Jen on Michigan Ave, Chicago - November 2010

This trip has prompted me to look back at some memories from the years past - ones of such joy, with our families together.
Ava and Annalee in the Navy Pier fountain - summer 2005
Ava & Cassidy, summer 2005 in Chicago



Ava and Cass @ Navy Pier, 2005
Ava & Cassidy at Shedd Aquarium - summer 2007

Cass, Annalee, Ava & Soren
Gressa, Cass & Annalee @ Shedd

Annalee, Cassidy, & Ava - Fall 2008
Colton... in the belly!
Ava, Annalee, & Cassidy - Navy Pier 2010
January 2014
Oh, growing up, so!  Jen and I decided we love this pic for the fact that it truly illustrates each of their personalities.  Those are raw grins, and I can feel Cass's tomboy breeze from here :)
The kids, after Addison's, "Phantom Groom" Wedding.  They spent hours orchestrating this... Gressa running about during rehearsals, yelling, "The Bride is hungry!  The Bride is thirsty!"




Colton & Soren = Monster Truck Mania



We sure do miss Tony!!!  We all drove together, to Indiana, and he flew out of Indianapolis on Sunday am.   He was headed to Beech Island, SC for a week of work, there.  We treasured the facetiming we did this week, but we absolutely can't WAIT to see him tomorrow (toDAY at this point, I suppose...)! Addison was a big fan of the facetime gig, too.  "Hi Toby!  You funny, Toby!"



I'm finishing up some laundry and getting ready to smush myself in between 2 of the sweetest little bodies I could ever imagine.  Sleeping with S and G is a little piece of heaven, with a crack between the twin and adjacent trundle bed, made just for me... :)  It surely isn't all rainbows and unicorns... tonight Soren chose bed - still in his jeans - over a chili dinner.  I hope that sleep-deprivation-too-much-good-fun-with-friends pout is gone in the morning... maybe I can love it out of him with some snuggles...

 Love ya, friend.  Thanks for always being you.